(This article originally published in Elevate U for The Black Collegian Magazine)
A State of Mind Called Time Pt. III
“In all our deeds, the proper value and respect for time determines success or failure.” –El Hajj El Malik El Shabazz (Malcolm X)
Have you ever met somebody that’s always late for class, work, and everything else, but has the nerve to be mad because he or she didn’t get to leave on time?
Please tell me that’s not you. Are you one of those people that likes to be “fashionably late”?
I know this violates proper nightclub etiquette but…
In the real world, consistently being late is deplorable. It’s irritating or infuriating for the person that’s waiting on you and it’s detrimental to your reputation.
When was the last time you went to a meeting, graduation, concert, or conference that actually started on time? If your answer is: “recently”, I’m jealous.
Of course things happen, but for most people and organizations the “things” that cause them to consistently start and show up late or waste time are the result of disrespect.
Just look at the incidents involving several of the major airlines recently. Literally millions of people—unfortunately I was one of them—were stuck on runways and thousands of flights were canceled because of egregious errors in judgment and flat out disrespect for passengers’ time.
WARNING: Respect Time…or else.
If Father Time could talk he would be outraged. He’s had his civil rights violated more than anybody. If he had legs, people would be getting their butts kicked on a regular basis.
What causes people to engage in the gross misappropriation of precious moments in one instance, while pleading for “just five more minutes” in another?
It’s ALL mental. It has nothing to do with your planner, Trio, or Blackberry. I know people with all types of time management gizmos and they still waste time or show up late.
The way you treat Time is a state of mind that manifests in the form of a habit. Habits are the physical manifestation of your thinking—conscious or non-conscious.
Instead of changing their thought patterns people play ridiculous head games trying to trick themselves into being on time.
Here are some popular ways that people, including myself, have tried to cover up their disrespect for Time.